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08/28/22 08:24 PM #1738    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

Karen and Holly, you are right!  Cheryl was courageous, and very kind.  I believe she helped welcome me as a new student.

The only time I ever saw her crying was one time in 8th grade.  As I remember, only I and Mrs. Morton were in the room.  I didn't know what to say to comfort her.   So I didn't do anything.

 

 

 

 


08/28/22 08:27 PM #1739    

 

Judith Sheahan (Lindgren)

While I did not know Cheryl Stevens because my family moved to Evanston just before the ETHS school year began, I remember Cheryl was recognized with a moment of silence at our freshman class opening assembly held in Beardsley Gym. It shocked me because until then I had never known someone my age who died. It made a very deep impression on me. I think this occurred on our first day of classes and don't remember anything else about the assembly other than we listened to the typical speeches one can imagine school administrators delivering. 


08/28/22 08:47 PM #1740    

 

Carolyn Wyld (Saul)

I ordered my copy of Rocky Trail from Amazon before learning I could have gotten it from Marty or from BookBaby. Sorry that Lois won't get the royalties. I finished the first 6 chapters, through ETHS. I was in first and second grade with Lois at Oakton School, though I can't say I remember anything in particular about her, other than her name. I have really enjoyed reading of her experiences. I do have a question for Lois, though. Did you have a birthday party when you lived in the basement apartment? You didn't seem to celebrate birthdays, but I can recall going to some classmate's basement apartment for a birthday party. I think the girl lived with only her mother in just a single room. I don't think a lot of kids showed up, but I remember the mother seeming so happy she could do this for her daughter and I can remember feeling so sorry that this girl had to live in such a miserable place. I also have fond memories of the Nichols School art teacher, but not for art, but for my love of mysteries. I can remember him reading Edgar Allen Poe to us as we drew. I've been remembering all kinds of long forgotten experiences!


08/29/22 04:06 PM #1741    

 

William Wanlund

Carolyn -- if you wanted to go to the trouble, you could return it to Amazon for a refund and buy another from BookBaby (wish they had another name).  Or, if you're feeling generous, buy another copy from BB and give the Amazon copy to a friend.  Just a suggestion.


08/29/22 11:18 PM #1742    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

I was thinking about basement apartments. 

My first adult apartment was one of two in the basement of a family's house in Bismarck, N.D., where I worked my first post-college job as a reporter for the Bismarck Tribune.  My pay was $50 a week.

I had a nice landlord and it was a friendly place to live, but it flooded with a big rainstorm.  It also had no kitchen sink, though it had a refrigerator and stove.  I washed my dishes in the bathtub!

Though costs were a lot less in 1968, keep in mind how badly women - including people's mothers - were underpaid.  You could be talented, creative, efficient - and still not be able to afford a lot!

I once got on a friend's case because her mother didn't have a phone.  Little did I know how hard it was for many to earn a living - until I was unemployed myself for periods during the 70s and 80s.

 

 


08/30/22 02:45 PM #1743    

 

Marty Campbell

William & Susan you are so precious.  Thank you for showing your tender underbellies on this behalf of me n Lois.

Lincoln, USPS Tracking #: 9549 0120 2957 2241 7394 83 sent outa Silver City NM yesterday at 5:03pm MST by thuh nicest and most well equipped (for dumbells in thuh confluence of depression & dimentia (& hypomania today)) Postal Clerk in thuh whirld after closing hour and before thuh truck left for thuh day whoth thuh mail, both east & west.  —  if you bought one already a nother way, see William above.  you owe me nothin.  if you wish to contribute to my spirit of buying & distributing more books from Lois, in accord with Susan's code of supporting indie writer-authors, i will disclose what i've put in to each book so far, and my intention yet to come.  I'll have to look at my bank statement, but was allowed to buy these paticular 50 books directly from Book Baby (i agree William, but we have to allow us each, thuh smiths, to make boo boos in order to receive each's genius) at authors' rate, as a best/supportive friend of Lois at something like $5 each, and still promise to send Lois (you all see it here in print) $10 each in royalties, and book rate from here, yours cost me $3.49.  you will see re-used envelopes, and we certainly all owe all well equipped and hearted Postal Clerks a lotta swift&overtime labor.  if (you or) i did a typo on thuh tracking, and you never see thuh book i sent, let me know and i'll key it in from my end.  the only true insurance is godjahallahbuddha  bless us each.  if you can't read muh return address, i can put it here.


08/30/22 02:47 PM #1744    

 

Marty Campbell

William & Susan you are so precious.  Thank you for showing your tender underbellies on this behalf of me n Lois.


Lincoln, USPS Tracking #: 9549 0120 2957 2241 7394 83 sent outa Silver City NM yesterday at 5:03pm MST by thuh nicest and most well equipped (for dumbells in thuh confluence of depression & dimentia (& hypomania today)) Postal Clerk in thuh whirld after closing hour and before thuh truck left for thuh day whoth thuh mail, both east & west.  —  if you bought one already a nother way, see William above.  you owe me nothin.  if you wish to contribute to my spirit of buying & distributing more books from Lois, in accord with Susan's code of supporting indie writer-authors, i will disclose what i've put in to each book so far, and my intention yet to come.  I'll have to look at my bank statement, but was allowed to buy these paticular 50 books directly from Book Baby (i agree William, but we have to allow us each, thuh smiths, to make boo boos in order to receive each's genius) at authors' rate, as a best/supportive friend of Lois at something like $5 each, and still promise to send Lois (you all see it here in print) $10 each in royalties, and book rate from here, yours cost me $3.49.  you will see re-used envelopes, and we certainly all owe all well equipped and hearted Postal Clerks a lotta swift&overtime labor.  if (you or) i did a typo on thuh tracking, and you never see thuh book i sent, let me know and i'll key it in from my end.  the only true insurance is godjahallahbuddha  bless us each.  if you can't read muh return address, i can put it here.


08/30/22 04:41 PM #1745    

 

Vernon Neece (Neece)

If my memory is correct, and who knows at our age, but I think there was a memorial bench to Cheryl Stevens next to the sidewalk as one approached the ebtrance to the music wing,


08/31/22 10:27 PM #1746    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

Marty,

I received Lois's book today from you. Please send me your mailing address and I will send you a check for the book and postage. Thanks very much and I am really looking forward to reading it. I did not know Lois in high school so hopefully this book will help fill that gap just a little bit.

Be well anfd be safe,

Linc


09/01/22 02:19 PM #1747    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

Vernon, I think you are right about the Memorial Bench for Cheryl Stevens.  I think I remember it being pointed out on one tour of ETHS years ago.


09/01/22 08:25 PM #1748    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

Marty,

I really do want to pay for the book so Lois sees some benefit. I could not read your return address on the envelope, so please send it to me.

Marty, you are a good man. Stay well, safe and free!

Lincoln


09/02/22 03:52 PM #1749    

 

Elaine Borland (Purnell)

Cheryl was my best friend at Nichols. We were both in Mrs Morton's home room. She had two amputations to her leg while we were there.  It was so sad. But that did not stop her from doing things. The police department fixed a seat on my bike and we rode all over town. She went to Plant Room, hopped on diving boards and jumped into pools. She was fearless, smart and yes, brave. We were in different halls at ETHS so we did not see each other as often. 
It's still hard to think about her death freshman year. A terrible loss. 

 


 


09/02/22 05:41 PM #1750    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

That is a beautiful tribute, Elaine! I remember both of you from eighth grade.


09/03/22 08:39 AM #1751    

 

Bill Gelderman

I remember Cheryl very well. Her courage and determination were remarkable.

I recall a party in someone's basement. She had to get down the stairs, but did so without calling attention to her struggle. She was funny and inspirational at the same time. A fond memory.


09/03/22 10:32 AM #1752    

Rev. Dr. Abigail Albert

I remember Cheryl from grade school. When she had her leg amputated my dad took me to the hospital in Chicago to visit. She was an amazing girl. It was heartbreaking when she passed.


09/04/22 03:56 PM #1753    

 

Fred Brostoff

The following message is posted on behalf of Jerri McCabe.

Standing: Steve Brehn with wife Carol - Deb Swanson with Norm

Seated: Barb Thompson with Chuck - Jerri and Jack McCabe

Met at Perry's Streak and Grille in Oak Brook on September 3rd, 2022.


09/06/22 10:47 AM #1754    

 

Fred Brostoff

Paste the following URL into your web browser to read about a very special event that was arranged by our classmates, Rommie Taylor and Bob Reece.

https://evanstonroundtable.com/2022/09/05/ninety-reasons-to-celebrate-sam-johnson/


09/06/22 02:02 PM #1755    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

wonderful article about the event put on by Rommie and Bob to honor Sam Johnson on his 90th birthday! ETHS colleagues really care about others, well done!


09/06/22 07:11 PM #1756    

 

Sherwin "Jay" Siegall

Lincoln: Attachéd is Cheryl's 8th grade photo from the Spring 1960 Gondolier!

 


09/06/22 08:01 PM #1757    

 

Sherwin "Jay" Siegall

YES, KUDOS to Rommie and Bob for alll they do and have done for the Evanston Community and to their celebration of Sam Johnson, unknown to me but obviously a pillar in the community.

 I particularly liked the answers he gave to the interview questions.

 Great answers and also his response to "good to see you"

My response to that has always been "GOOD TO BE SEEN AND NOT "VIEWED""

 

kEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND mASON pARK BRINGS BACK MEMORIES OF MY "MINOR LEAGUE BASEBALL GAMES AT maSON paRK.!!!  


09/08/22 01:35 PM #1758    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

Jay,

Thanks for finding and posting the picture of Cheryl. It confirms I did not know this brave and courageous classmate, rest her soul!

I also join you in saluting Rommie and Bob for their excellent work in recognizing Sam Johnson's birthday! A wonderful reflection on the character of two of our ETHS classmates.

Hope you and the family are safe and well,

Linc


09/16/22 04:54 PM #1759    

 

Robert Lindner

Feeling Groovy

“Slow down, you move too fast
You got to make the morning last
Just kicking down the cobblestones
Looking for fun and feeling groovy
Ba da-da da-da da-da, feeling groovy
 
Hello lamppost, what'cha knowing
I've come to watch your flowers growin'
Ain't you got no rhymes for me?
Doo-ait-n-doo-doo, feeling groovy
Ba da-da da-da da-da, feeling groovy
 
I got no deeds to do, no promises to keep
I'm dappled and drowsy and ready to sleep
Let the morningtime drop all its petals on me
Life, I love you, all is groovy.”
 

The 59th Street Bridge Song

By Simon and Garfunkel 1966

 

Feels like I’m moving fast.

Though I’ve got to make each morning last.

And I’ve got to make each

Moment that passes reach

For sunlight on the beach.

Or mountain and memories from my past.

 

Like crossing the bridge from

Queens to Central Park. That’s one way to come

To Manhattan. I was

There once, walking because

I was asked to fix flaws

In the City’s health laws. But that’s now some

 

Time ago. I’m groovy

Now, though I’m moving too fast, but I’ll be

Talking to lampposts and

Knowing they understand

The “Feelin’ groovy” land.

I’m in, “lookin’” for fun. That’s fun for me,

 

So I’m lookin’ for fun.

Of course, I know, I’m not the only one

Asking lampposts for rhymes,

Hoping that morning times

Have shoes for morning climbs

I’ll make when I wake and my sleeping’s done

 

One more time. One more day.

Kicking down cobblestones along the way

Across the bridge to

The park or someplace new

It’s morning time. I’ll do

And play where memories tell me to play.

 

In my groovy life that’s come

So far. And it’s gone through some joys and some

Hardships too. But I made

It through my life’s parade

Memories come, some fade

But I’m out today, taking the bridge from

 

Yesterday, enjoying

The view, enjoying the groove of growing

Flowers and a morning

With songs that I can sing.

“Lamppost, what’cha knowing?”

It’s me, still feeling groovy and kicking

 

Down the cobblestones in

The morning time, letting the day begin

With rising of the sun

With eyes looking for fun

Day after day. Here’s one

More morning time with that groovy feelin’

 

Of petals dropping from

Flowers like in all those times that have come

With that groovy feeling

Of time “what'cha knowing”

Just time, I’m borrowing.

But it’s my morning time and I know some

 

Day I won’t be feeling

So groovy.  Since that’s not too appealing,

I’ll enjoy what I’ve got.

It may be cold or hot,

Still it’s mine till it’s not

My borrowed time. The days that I’m stealing

 

From the universe I’m

In. Where I’m trying to slow down, let time

Begin again each day

And take me on my way

Past cobblestones that lay

Where lampposts have a “Feelin’ Groovy” rhyme

 

For me. Just one will be

Enough to end the day with poetry,

Remembering a song

That’s been mine all along.

“Slow down,” you can’t go wrong

Singing, Life, I love you, all is groovy.”


09/16/22 07:13 PM #1760    

 

Richard Winokur

Bob
I loved the poem.
Take care my past neighbor

09/18/22 02:18 PM #1761    

 

Renee Sherer (Schleicher)

Our colleague Jack Rakove has had another article published in the Wall Street Journal, this one entitled, "James Madison's Critique of the Senate", at https://www.wsj.com/articles/james-madisons-critique-of-the-senate-still-holds-11663335204  

For comments in the political vein, please post them in the User Forums (Topics) in the section on Politics.


09/18/22 03:12 PM #1762    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

Robert, I loved

I’ll enjoy what I’ve got.

It may be cold or hot,

Still it’s mine till it’s not.


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