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09/18/22 03:12 PM #1762    

 

Susan Spiegel (Pastin)

Robert, I loved

I’ll enjoy what I’ve got.

It may be cold or hot,

Still it’s mine till it’s not.


09/18/22 09:22 PM #1763    

Janis Cohen

Preston, what a surprise and a pleasure to meet you today at the National Eagle Center!  Life continues to amaze!  Janis

 

 

 


09/19/22 04:30 PM #1764    

 

Fred Brostoff

Today, many, if not all ETHS alumni received an email that appeared to come from David Futransky of the ETHS alumni association, and which email requested that classmates call a specified phone number to verify their "data".  Unfortunately, the current frequency of internet scams caused me to be cautious about responding to the email...so I checked with our classmate, Kathy Miehls, who has worked with David Futransky.  She responded as follows:

I just talked to Dave. It's legit. Others have questioned the email, too. We're all nervous about hacking/pfishing. He's going to update and send the request again. They need updated info because the next alum Directory will need updated info as well.

So, the bottom line is that you can be comfortable providing the information requested in the email.


09/20/22 10:44 AM #1765    

 

Kathy Dalgety (Miehls)

You also received, yesterday, a postcard from Dave Futransky, executive director of the ETHS Alumni Assn. (he took over from me when I retired), about what was also in the FB message you received from him. Truly, both are legitimate. Honest!  — Kathy Dalgety Miehls


09/20/22 03:16 PM #1766    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

To:Robert,

Please take a look at the message from Larry Schwimmer, how sad that he feels so unhappy about his years at ETHS. Maybe you could do a poem for him" I'm not in the In-Crowd" based on Dobie Gray's song, The In Crowd, from 1965. If anyone can do it, its you!

Best,

Linc


09/21/22 10:17 AM #1767    

 

Fred Brostoff

DISCUSSION FORUMS vs. MESSAGE FORUM

(Purpose and Use)

Renaming the User Forums

To better differentiate the Forums, the name of the User Forums is hereby changed to “Discussion Forums”.

Differences / Purposes

The Message Forum is intended to be a residence for information that does NOT precipitate debate and is NOT to be used for any political or social commentary. 

The purpose of the Discussion Forums is to provide a venue for comment or debate on specific issues.  For example, the following issue categories (each known as a “Forum”) are currently available in the Discussion Forums:

  • Equity & Empowerment for Evanston Families
  • Political / Social Commentary
  • School Life Before ETHS
  • Our Vietnam Era Experiences

If you want to discuss something that doesn’t fit within any of the above Discussion Forums, another Discussion Forum can be added (see “Details” below).

Within each Discussion Forum, several “Topics” exist.  You can post within an existing Topic or you can create a new Topic (see “Details” below).

How to Use the Discussion Forums

  1. Click on Discussion Forums and review the existing Forums. 
  2. If you believe that one of the existing Forums describes the nature of your intended comments, then click on it.  If you do not find a Forum that satisfies your needs, contact the Website Administrator (click on the “Contact Us” link on the left side of the Home Page) and ask to create a new Forum with a name that you recommend.
  3. Once inside a Forum, you can add your comments to an existing Topic or create a new Topic by clicking on “Post New Topic”.
  4. Once inside a Topic, post your comment by clicking on “Reply”.
  5. If you want to receive all new Forum posts directly to your email rather than needing to search them out, you have a choice:
    1. Select “yes” at the bottom of the Forums page to receive email notice of each new Topic posting in any of the Forums.
    2. Select “yes” at the bottom of a specific Topic (thread) within a Forum to receive email notice of each new response to the Topic.  

09/21/22 01:31 PM #1768    

 

Nancy Schroeder

 

 

Thanks Fred for all the great work you do on this . We couldn't be so social if you hadn't started this and kept it going. Thanks bunches. You are a genius.

Nancy Schroeder
West Hall


09/21/22 06:24 PM #1769    

 

Marty Campbell

Lincoln Krochmal, and anyone else who wishes:  my address is 132 Galaz Street, San Lorenzo NM 88041. 

and you are welcome to visit any time, and may stay overnites, but call before, as i may be travelling at times.

thank you for your praise.  — grateful ole Marty Campbell

 

(Ditto, Nancy!)


09/22/22 08:10 AM #1770    

 

Fred Brostoff

Thanks, Nancy, for your kind words, but our class website has been successful as the result of the participation and input of so many of our '64 classmates.  Additionally, I have received much needed assistance from Art Hallstrom, the Assistant Administrator.

So, thanks to all of you and keep the comments coming!


09/22/22 10:26 AM #1771    

 

Robert Lindner

Based on Linc's suggestion regarding being 

Outside the cliques that were at ETHS while

We were in High School and the song by

Dobie Gray called "The "In" Crowd.

Here is my attempt at a poem.

Robert Lindner 

 

Out of the In Crowd

“I'm in with the in crowd,

I go where the in crowd goes
I'm in with the in crowd and

I know what the in crowd knows
Anytime of the year, don't you hear?

Dressing fine, making time
We breeze up and down the street,

We get respect from the people we meet.”

The “In” Crowd by Dobie Gray (1965)

 

There was an in crowd when

We were in high school. I just watched them. Then

Time went by and I forgot

Those cliques that I was not

In. Did I miss a lot?

I don’t know. Maybe so. But then again

 

Maybe not. I have had

I good life. So I cannot, now, be sad

About the “in” crowd

That I wasn’t allowed

In. Some people were proud

At the time. But it doesn’t seem so bad

 

In my memory. I

Had friends and fun and did not wonder why

I was out of that loop.

I was in science soup.

I was part of a group

That went past the in crowd, just passed them by,

 

At the time. They were in.

We were not. But the song did not begin

Till I was out of it,

That high school crowd’s orbit,

Somewhere it did not fit,

Like college, finding other groups to win

 

Approval from. And now

I’ll still go as far, as life will allow.

Far beyond the madding

(In) Crowd that was crowing,

When our world was going

To war, and I was too young to know how

 

To avoid that road to

Danger in Nineteen Sixty-Five. A few

Of us went and did not

Return. Our lives were caught,

And the teach-ins were taught,

And some of us did do, what we could do

 

To get out of that line

When in song The “In” Crowd was “dressing fine,

Making time.” That was then.

This is now. That was when

The school doors would open

And “out of the in crowd” was a good sign.


09/22/22 11:33 AM #1772    

 

Paula Massey

thank you, thank you to all who keep this site going.

 


09/23/22 07:44 AM #1773    

Larry Schwimmer

Hi Robert,

I loved your poem and your recalling that Dobie Gray song.

I thought about what I wrote about—being somewhat unhappy with my ETHS experience. I realize that what I really felt was not "unhappiness," it was more disappointment as I recalled the snobby way many classmates, in their cliques, behaved toward those not in their clique.  Personally, I was never mistreated or snubbed in any offensive way by Jocks or those who thought they were cool because they were in the "in-crowd."

I plead guilty to a sort of "Presentism."

 
 
 
pres·ent·ism
/ˈprezenˌtizəm/
noun
  1. uncritical adherence to present-day attitudes, especially the tendency to interpret past events in terms of modern values and concepts.

 

I was applying the mature adult behavior of civility and kindness to all as a standard of behavior to young highschool  teenagers who were behaving in the typical way that young teenagers behave. 

 

When I take stock of my high school experience, I realize that I actually was happy about it in many ways. I was fortunate to go to a great high school like ETHS. And, I did have my own group of good friends to hangout with and play baseball with like Jay Siegal, George Reskin, Leo Scholosberg, Marty LaPidus, Bernie Krule and Barry Bookman. And other really nice friends like Fred Brostoff, Barry Lazarus and Lincoln Krockmal (I'm sure I'm leaving out many others) et. al.

I remember you well, Robert as a classmate. You were a very bright and kind person. Thank you again for your poem. It helped me get touch with my high school experience and made me realize that it was very positive in many ways.  And, thank you Lincoln for asking Robert to write a poem, which made me take stock of what my real high school experience was about. 

 


09/23/22 11:40 AM #1774    

 

Mimi Been (Pearlman)

I threw mine out,thinking it was a scam.


09/23/22 11:47 AM #1775    

 

Jack Hayes

This string of mesages prompted me to look back on my ETHS days through the lens of time. First of all, I'm glad that your re-reflection on your high school days is much less somber than your initial post, Larry. Also, thanks for your most recent excellent poem, Robert (and all your other contributions as well).

My overall thought about "in-crowds" and cliques at ETHS is that the student body was so numerous and diverse that virtually everybody could find a group of friends among those in our classes, extracurricular activities, "neighbors" in homeroom, and old friends from grammar and junior high school. 

For me personally, my experiences were greatly influenced by my own stages of puberty. I was only 5' 1" tall when I entered ETHS and I do recall some rather humiliating events, mostly dealt by upperclasspersons whom I didn't even know. Fortunately, I grew to almost 6' by graduation, so that source of discomfort disappeared. Getting my driver's license the summer before my junior year was a landmark that also made things much more enjoyable as well. Teenagers can be very cynical and judgemental, but I never felt belittled by the sharp barbs among friends and certainly delivered a few myself. But, when we were faced with adversity, such as the time when a close friend's father died, we rallied in support of each other. 

Having moved away from Evanston three days after graduation and never living in Illinois again, I lost touch with all but a few Wildkits. However, I was amazed and gratified by how well old friends instantly reconnected at the reunions. Additionally, both at the reunions and in this forum, I am surprised by how many people I remember knowing at least casually at ETHS. 

We were fortunate to attend ETHS at a great time and to get a great education that provided a foundation for the rest of our lives. Thanks to all who keep this website going and to my classmates for continuing to post.

Best wishes to all,

Jack
 


09/23/22 01:01 PM #1776    

 

Phil Noble

thanks Larry and Jack and Robert and all u all!  what a great way to reassess our/my time there - loved the poem - loved reading Larry's earlier assessment and then his deeper take on that time we shared.

keep it coming!

phil

 


09/23/22 04:23 PM #1777    

 

Marty Campbell

ditto Paula Massy, and Fred Brostoff, i suggest using thuh word "and" in stead of "but".  please each of us include our selves in all of us.  bless you & me, thank you & me.

 


09/23/22 09:45 PM #1778    

 

Lee Saberson

I got my yellow postcard and called the number. After giving my updates I gave him my credit card. Ordering the minimum package - book only in go e price it at $182.!?! Seems a little steep. Fred should raise prices here.
Lee

09/27/22 07:34 AM #1779    

John McCabe

To all of our classmates living in Florida - be safe this weekend with all the storms approaching Southern Florida


09/27/22 02:55 PM #1780    

 

Sherwin "Jay" Siegall

Wildkits are tough🤣And prepared! Thanks for the wishes and to all in FL and elsewhere, Stay safe and healthy. 


09/28/22 01:34 PM #1781    

 

Sherrie Igoe (Dembrowski)

Thinking about all our ETHS friends EVERYWHERE, stay safe and healthy and smiling!


09/28/22 02:30 PM #1782    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

To Larry and Jack, thanks so much for your recent posts! Larryy, I am happy you did a reflection on your high school years and came up with some new views so that the glass was hald full. I don't believe every day and minute was enjoyable but I share Jack's view that being able to attend a great high school like ETHS  was wonderful and how well it prepared us for life's challenges that we still face every day. Tjis forum is amazing in bringing many of us togerther even if we were notclose during our school days. Kthanks to all and keep up the posts, so great to read what others are thinking about. I regret missing all but one og our reunions because travel aftr my stroke has been very difficult. I also worried I would not know anybody. Now I would connect with all those who contribute to the forum as that may be the best "in-crowd of all" and we created it!

Be well and be safe, pray for peace in this world.

Lincoln


09/28/22 02:33 PM #1783    

 

Lincoln Krochmal

Robert,

Once again, great job on the poem for Larry.  You have so much writing talent that just oozes out of you so please continue to share your amazing gift with those of us less talented but appreciative of your writings.

Best,

Lincoln


09/28/22 03:03 PM #1784    

 

Richard Winokur

To all my ETHS CLASS and other stay safe.

09/28/22 10:16 PM #1785    

Elizabeth Steinmetz (Brace-Blum)

Nancy S 

Believe you have a place near Long Boat Key .  Hope you are back

in Chicago for a bit   Saw a posting at MSC of the passing of a 

Charles S  .  Believe that is your oldest brother   Our thoughts are 

with you . Betsy 

 

 

 


09/29/22 06:00 PM #1786    

 

Fred Brostoff

Our class website database shows that we currently have 44 classmates living in Florida.  We pray for the wellbeing of each of them...and for all others who have been or will be impacted by Hurricane Ian.


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