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09/05/14 09:18 AM #116    

 

Linda Hayward (Niedermeier)

     I have been reading all of the messages about the upcoming reunion and waited a day to chime in so I could get my thoughts in order. I personally, am so excited to be able to attend the reunion this next week.  Each day I check the message board and each day I reminisce about my past experiences.  You see, this winter I had a near death experience and have come to truly appreciate what is around me today and how I became the person I am today. 

     Throughout the last 50 years I have bragged about my high school, the education I received, the sports events, the plays, the musicals, etc. that I was able to attend, and all of the wonderful people that I met along the way.  I don't have a Pollyanna view of the past but I appreciate the opportunities I was given then and because of that time, the opportunities I have received along the way.  I like to think that I had one of the best educations afforded to anyone.

 I want to thank the reunion committee for all of its hard work.  They took on a huge task and in my opinion, have put together a reunion that we can all enjoy.  I look forward to seeing everyone.  You'll be able to find me by the smile on my face and the drink in my hand.


09/05/14 09:54 AM #117    

 

Janet Bos (Lefevre)

Linda - Thank you so much for your message and I am looking forward to visiting with you at the reunion.  You have been a good friend and I can't wait to see you.


09/05/14 10:03 AM #118    

 

Claudia Copeland

I'm joining the conversation here late, although I've been lurking for some time and enjoying the conversation. I want to add my congratulations to Pat Judy, and Phil for all of the organizing, and to Fred for all of the impressive work on this website. I was astonished to have been tracked down months ago, because I'd been a "lost sheep" for a long time. Finding so many of us took some great sleuthing.

For quite some time, I thought that I wouldn't be joining the reunion next weekend, but plans changed at the last minute, so I'll be there. For me, it'll be a rare trip back to Evanston, and I'm looking forward to it. I'm particularly looking forward to touring the school on Saturday afternoon. I wonder how much of it will be recognizable after 50 years (I know that it's common for people to have nightmares about not being able to find a classroom, missing a final exam, not graduating -- in my nightmares, I'm lost in the halls of ETHS). And of course I'm looking forward to seeing and visiting with people, but I'll admit that I'm a little nervous about it, too. Betting that I'm not the only one.

Anyway, I'll see many of you in a week. I hope that we have great weather.

P.S. to Judy or Fred -- does the "no phones" at the country club also apply to photographing with camera phones?


09/05/14 02:28 PM #119    

 

Vernon Neece (Neece)

Following on Fred's comment about children, insanity is also hereditary.  You get it from your children.  :-)


09/05/14 08:50 PM #120    

 

Helga Zirkel (Schwarten)

I think it is more than OK to call ETHS and our class the best.....and I say this from a place of gratitude.  I had been a shy kid, spoke no English, was bullied, attended four different grammar schools while learning the language. My 8th grade graduating class consisted of eight students. As one can imagine, entering ETHS was overwhelming and pretty frightening....but I adjusted and thrived, thanks to my fellow classmates. ETHS was exceptional in so many ways, from the wonderfully diverse student body, the amazing sports events, to the various clubs, dances, etc.  School spirit reigned and gave us a common ground. We cheered together. Now this website has brought us together and next week some of us will meet again or for the first time. This reunion is truly a gift, and I am grateful for all the good memories that have already come with it.   And many thanks to Judy, Fred, Pat, Phil.....most certainly the best.  This continues to be quite a trip.....and I am grateful to be part of the journey.    


09/05/14 08:51 PM #121    

 

Kathy Dalgety (Miehls)

Vernon, It seems to improve, however, if you have grandkids. They allow you to reassess how you feel about your own kid.


09/05/14 09:11 PM #122    

 

Victor Brown

Well, I've finally done it.  I just watched our 25th Reunion VHS video.  What a blast.  If anyone else knows where their tape is, and still has a VCR to play it on, I highly recommend that you play it before coming to next week's 50th Reunion.  It will provide a good "bridge" from 1964 until now.  I am glad that we will not be having a picnic with three-legged races and egg tosses, but the brats and burgers sure looked good on the grills.

I, too, want to give my sincere thanks to the Reunion Committee for putting this all together, one more time.  Great job!!!  And, while I am not on Facebook, or Twitter, I must say the interaction on this website has been phenomenal, and I want to thank that guy who sat in front of me in Homeroom for the wonderful job he did on this website - Thanks, Fred.

After enjoying the 25th Reunion video, I hope plans have been made to produce a DVD of our 50th Reunion.  Then in another 25 years we will have to search for a DVD player to play it on in the nursing home.

Safe travels to all.  See you next week.

Vic Brown

 

 


09/05/14 11:41 PM #123    

 

Sherrie Igoe (Dembrowski)

Wow, Vic - glad you mentioned it, I'm going to get out my VHS tape of the last reunion right now,  (if I can find it!)  And, how positively optimistic of you that we should all watch the video from this year in another in 25 !!!. I love the thought and hope they improve bifocals enough between now and then for me to be able to see it!  I am very much looking forward to this next weekend, and, along with Helga and many others, have my fears of not remembering names, events, etc. but I have read that many of us have the same issues - obviously one of the wonderful parts of being in the Great Class of 1964!!!

Also, am wondering...it doesn't seem possible that I was the only female in the class of 1964 who joined the military....? 


09/06/14 04:36 AM #124    

 

Sherwin "Jay" Siegall

Kathy, Vernon:my wife has always said grandchildren are gods gift for not having killed your own!  :-)


09/06/14 04:56 AM #125    

 

Sherwin "Jay" Siegall

Don Hall:   Can you shed some light on the George Hildreth story. Was Jeff involved in George's death? If not any idea how that story started or what actually happened to George. Thanks. And again thanks for sharing your wonderful eulogy on Steve Hancock. 


09/06/14 11:57 AM #126    

 

Molly McCracken (Schwarzman)

Fantastic Website

I am sorry that I will not be at the reunion BUT reading all the profiles, messages, etc one feels very much a part of the whole experience.   The website is wonderful and the reunion committee has done a great job.

We were all so fortunate to attend ETHS when we did.  The school offered so much for ALL students regardless of their economic or social upbringing.

I agree with others that the reunion being a 3 day celebration is needed-not many would want to travel across the country for a one day party?  As far as dress code, dancing, and liquor. REALLY we are 68 years old NOT 88 and some of us STILL can and do  like to dance, have a drink, and do not mind getting cleaned up to go out. I bet most of us really know how to 'behave'. So everyone enjoy the reunion, laugh, dance, tell stories, go down memory lane and brag about your kids & the grands.   You can be serious on another day.

 

Molly McCracken

 

 

 

 


09/06/14 02:46 PM #127    

 

Nancy Schroeder

Molly sorry you will miss the reunion, but you hit the nail on the head. Let us all enjoy the great work that everyone has performed,  and most of all Fred, so that we could reunite after so long. I can't wait to see some friends that I lost in the year since 1964. See you starting Friday and all travel safe. 

 


09/06/14 04:24 PM #128    

 

Robert Lindner

I think the most remarkable thing, at least that I remember about being in the class of 64 were the interesting teachers I had. I can remember Mattson in History, Anspaugh and Larkin in Physics, Hall and Halstead in Chemistry, Don Koss, Gerlach, and May in Math,  Barbara Panwit and Marie Claire Davis in English. I met Don Koss again later when he was tympanist with the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, I think our class was one of the few he taught before getting into the CSO. The teachers and the times including the beginning of the war, the death of Kennedy, the civil rights movement, that was what made the class of 64 such a great and memorable class to have been a part of.


09/07/14 02:29 PM #129    

Veronica McBride (Didier)

Hi Robert Lindner,  you probably don't remember me, but you were in my 8th grade class at Nichols, which is where we had Mrs.Gerlach for math.  However, I also remember Larkin for physics and Halsted for chemistry in a combined AP class. I agree the teachers at ETHS were great and one thing I got in high school was...an education. Glad to see you on the web site Veronica Mc Bride Didier


09/07/14 05:16 PM #130    

 

Sherri Huff (Buxton)

Like everyone else, I can't say enough about this website and the time and effort put forth by the reunion committee (including several people whose names have not surfaced on these pages).  After 50 years of no contact with the class of '64, I was extremely apprehensive about showing up to a reunion where I was certain no one would remember me.  Thanks to this website, we've all had an opportunity to reconnect and the result has been fantastic.  So many memories that were locked away have surfaced with force and I am so very thankful to read about everyone. We were extremely fortunate to have the education and camraderie we had at ETHS and I now I feel excited, energized and ready to see everyone next week. It's as though we haven't skipped a beat.  Looking forward to a FANTASTIC time!


09/07/14 05:27 PM #131    

 

Ruth Gross

Since so many of us have mentioned specific teachers who were instrumental in making the ETHS education one of excellence, I'd like to express my gratitude to the following: Charles Thomas, Florence Steiner, John Brauer, Karen Kuehner,  and Justin Kestenbaum.  At Nichols, I had a phenomenal math teacher--Glenn Wise.  (Not to mention the many wonderful teachers in the arts--dramatic, graphic, and musical.) In some ways, these wonderful teachers all became role models for my own career. 


09/07/14 07:18 PM #132    

 

Sherri Huff (Buxton)

Is anyone else traveling to Evanston from New England?

 


09/08/14 08:41 AM #133    

 

Jeanie (Jessica) Witkin (Zeller)

I think this is how I connect with all of you on this site...I've enjoyed reading the posts from everyone.

As our time together approaches, Some questions have been rising that, perhaps, will be fodder for some conversations (after we've shown the pictures of our grandkids..) - Some of these I posted on my personal site, but they continue to be in my mind, so I will share them here, too...

Now that we are entering our years of being "elders", what have we gleaned from our life experience? What has lasting value? What are our hopes/fears for the future for the coming generations? What are we doing to take care that there will be a healthy planet here for the seventh generation? Are we being good elders for those who need guidance? How have you navigated your challenges? What inspires you? What is true success? What is enough? 

Well, I think THAT is enough...!

Many thanks to our awesome committee...And to all who have contributed to this upcoming gathering.

See you soon!


09/08/14 03:10 PM #134    

Merry (Elizabeth) Bennett (Plocar)

I'm sitting here at our local library, crying like a baby!  I had so hoped to be able to come this weekend, but it just isn't going to happen.  While I haven't posted very often, like so many others I read the comments every day and have totally enjoyed learning what everyone has been up to since the 25th (the last one I attended).  To say I have been stunned and saddened by all the classmates we have lost is a tremendous understatement.

For those who don't remember me, my school name was Merry Bennett but some kids called me Benne. I moved to Evanston in 3rd grade - Central School - and ended up skipping 5th grade so I was a year younger than all of you--AND STILL AM, nana nana boo boo!!  Then Nichols and ETHS, but my mother sent me away senior year so I didn't get to graduate with MY class.  I ended up graduating from Maine East, but have always been and will always be a Wildkit at heart and am eternally grateful that I've been included all these years.  Anyway...

I do want to add my two cents to something said a few weeks ago - I think Mike Silverman started the thread - about some people not coming due to possibly painful memories caused by someone's behavior.  Other folks agreed and/or understood what he meant. Me, too!  Fortunately, in my twenties, I had a great shrink and was able to finally deal with all my highschool/teenage/family angst and get my shit together (oops! can I say that?), which made our 25th Reunion an easy acceptance for me.  Then, lo and behold, while at the Dinner Dance an apology was made to me out of the clear blue (and accepted) and suddenly, WHAM!, not only did the birds start singing but I knew that God was truly in His heaven!.  And, while that apology was a wonderful unexpected present, what mattered to me and what stuck with me most of all after the weekend was the affirmation I felt when I realized people actually remembered me!!  I felt like Sally Field at the Oscars! 

All this to say...we really are adults now and it's time to step up and apologize; or, on the other hand, talk to the person who hurt you.  Since this is probably the last full-blown reunion, it's time to deal with it and put it to bed.  Believe me, you'll be so much happier!!

Can't wait to see all the posts and comments after the weekend.  If anyone is on FB, I'm there as Beth Plocar and would really like to connect.  May your time this weekend be filled with fun and blessings and contentment.  Thank you, Fabulous Fred, Phil, Pat, Judy, and everyone else on the committee.  Thank you, everyone who has commented and created profiles.  I'll be there in spirit. 

May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine upon you and be gracious unto you; The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.  I pray He will always keep each and every one of the ETHS Class of 1964 in His care. God bless us, everyone!


09/08/14 07:06 PM #135    

 

Joan Novinson (Nicholson)

Dear Preston,

     Do you have a video camera installed for a chip in my person?  The weight, the nails, the hair, the purchase of a dress in the school colors--no one could know about those things, especially my husband of 44 years.  He is too busy riding his bicycle but insists on accompanying me, which is nice since I can't negotiate anything, save a website.  He has acted like a bit of a martyr, until he saw Bonnie Robinson's post.


09/08/14 07:20 PM #136    

 

Robert Lindner

Joan tells me I wrote a poem for her once upon a time, so here is another one.

TRANSITIONS - A Tale Of Fifty Years (Since 1964)

 

 

Once upon a time, fifty years ago,

Though not the beginning of time for me,

Just a point in my life, when I would know

A change would come, I dreamt, and hoped I’d be

 

A great success, whatever that may mean,

But here I am, and fifty years have passed,

They were mostly good years, the ones I’ve seen

Since, but not the first time, and not the last

 

 

Of time passing, making my life a tale

I can tell, as the sixties passed, then in

The seventies and then eighties set sail

For nineties, a century would begin,

 

Then ten years more into this history,

And here we are, changed by the vagaries

Of time, you into you, me into me,

And some have passed into the distant seas,

 

 

So fifty years have passed, and now it seems

I am constantly wondering what I’ll do,

With a new transition now, since my dreams

Are old and mostly fulfilled, and my new

 

Ones seem mainly questions of avoidance

And approach, with plans for getting around

The many obstacles of life that chance

Will put in front of you, some are profound,

 

 

But change, that necessary condition

Of existence is out of our control,

And when change comes, there’s a transition

To plan for, so we won’t fall through a hole

 

Or trip over a bump, since holes and bumps

Always seem to be there, when changes come,

And a plan’s needed so that no one jumps

In holes or trips on bumps, does something dumb,

 

 

Then there’s reflex reaction to the change,

And you can be sure that if nothing’s planned,

Someone will react and do something strange,

And if they do they’re sure to fall and land

 

On their rear ends or their faces or worse,

Not land, but fall into a hole, a crack,

Which can be deep, and then there’ll be a curse

That’s shouted, until the bottom comes, then whack

 

 

Another sound, and then the shouting stops,

Therefore to prevent this undesired sound,

A plan is made to be sure no one drops

A square peg into any hole that’s round,

 

But I never was one who liked to plan

Always preferring spontaneity,

Going with the flow, whenever I can

In a search for life’s serendipity

 

 

As luck would have it, fifty years passed by

And I’ve found my way through each transition

Though changes should be planned for, I know I

Will count on fool’s luck and intuition,

 

It’s worked so far, at least it has for me.

So that’s my tale of fifty years, since we

Became the class of 64, fifty

Years ago, it seems an eternity,

 

 

But it’s just fifty years of transitions,

Of changes, some I’d rather not mention.

Still, there are changes and traditions,

And hell’s road is paved with good intention.

 

Heaven’s path is clear, but neither is near,

So far as my story goes, I am here,

After transitions of a long career,

To wish you all a happy fiftieth year.

 

Robert Lindner, September 2014


09/08/14 07:32 PM #137    

 

Preston Cook

Hello Joan,

My search for an identical Madras sport coat as worn in the key failed, the narrow tie is available, but not required this time, it stays at home.  As for my wife, she is making an appearance only Saturday evening, allowing me to schmooze Thursday and Friday.  I am hopeful appropriate signage identifying the Spousal Support Group locations will be helpful.  See you soon.


09/08/14 07:55 PM #138    

 

Edward Boesel

Sherri  Huff, I am traveling from Saugus MA, by motorcycle, left this morning... See you there


09/09/14 12:30 AM #139    

 

Holly Romans (Green)

Thanks, Robert, for the poem.  It is such a finishing touch to this amazing website.  I knew a poet and poem would come from somewhere.  Your were wonderful to make that contribution.  Holly

 


09/09/14 09:56 AM #140    

 

Stephen Smith

She must be getting the MOODY BLUES mixed up with the GREATFUL DEAD, MB'S not dead just manic depressive. 


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