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Sherwin "Jay" Siegall
I second what Pat Furlong has stated. Re the clicques, yes they were still somewhat evident at the 25th but I think that is the at least partially the result of comfort and familiarity and limited time to reconnect. (Our 3 day events however have always been wonderfully designed toward reducing that problem)
I do think based upon my personal experience the clicques softened at our 32nd and 40th reunions. I also think that the large number of deceased classmates that every one of us must have had connections to many of them has taken its toll on us as well as new maturity we may experience in our late 60's!
I can tell you personally that the tears well up in my eyes just seeing the names and knowing these people JUST AREN'T THERE ANYMORE! It does not matter that I only used to say hi and really had no other relationship. I have had feelings I never thought of in the past, I imagine the result of out of sight, out of mind. However just picturing at least 60 of the people on the in memoriam list that I had met over the years I felt I knew well enough to to exchange hellos or very casual convesation with brings sadness and tears welling up as I am now thinking/reflecting about how these people, classmates, human beings have been cheated out of the pleasures of life that I continue to be blessed to experience.
As I have said before, we were a great class of wonderful unique people....and we are fortunate that we have had and taken the opportunity to know more of the virtues of our classmates. And as I write this, regardless of my ramblings above, an OBVIOUS DIFFERENCE in softening the clicques just occurred to me!! This web site has made a huge difference.
Reading the in Memorium stories and peoples profiles in the quiet of our own homes without outside influences has given all of us new insights into our classmates that NEVER would have ocurred without this website. And I have noticed over and over the remarkable effect this website has had in reading the postings our classmates have so unselfishly shared with everyone!
Time to say thanks again FRED and the committee to who I thank for not just the 50th. This core group of people have made possible the 10th, 25th, 32nd, 40th and 50th. I have attended all and am thank full! (Did we have a 15th?) Can anyone name where they all were?.
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